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A teacher in New York decided to honor each of her seniors in high school by telling
them the difference they each made. She called each student to the front of
the class, one at a time. First she told each of them how they had made a difference to
her and the class. Then she presented each of them with a blue ribbon imprinted with gold
letters, which read, "Who I Am Makes a Difference."
Afterwards the teacher decided to do a class project to see what kind of impact
recognition would have on a community. She gave each of the students three more ribbons
and instructed them to go out and spread this acknowledgment ceremony. Then they were to
follow up on the results, see who honored whom and report back to the class in about a
week.
One of the boys in the class went to a junior executive in a nearby company and honored
him for helping him with his career planning. He gave him a blue ribbon and put it on his
shirt. Then he gave him two extra ribbons and said,
"We're doing a class project on recognition, and we'd like you to go out, find
somebody to honor, give them a blue ribbon, then give them the extra blue ribbon so they
can acknowledge a third person to keep this acknowledgment ceremony going. Then please
report back to me and tell me what happened."
Later that day the junior executive went in to see his boss, who had been noted, by the
way, as being kind of a grouchy fellow. He sat his boss down and he told him that he
deeply admired him for being a creative genius. The
boss seemed very surprised. The junior executive asked him if he would accept the gift of
the blue ribbon and would he give him permission to put it on him. His surprised boss
said, "Well, sure." The junior executive took the blue ribbon and placed it
right on his boss's jacket above his heart.
As he gave him the last extra ribbon, he said, "Would you do me a favor? Would you
take this extra ribbon and pass it on by honoring somebody else? The young boy who first
gave me the ribbons is doing a project in school and we want to keep this recognition
ceremony going and find out how it affects people."
That night the boss came home to his 14-year-old son and sat him down. He said, "The
most incredible thing happened to me today. I was in my office and one of the junior
executives came in and told me he admired me and gave me a blue ribbon for being a
creative genius. Imagine. He thinks I'm a creative genius. Then he put this blue ribbon
that says "Who I Am Makes a Difference," on my jacket above my heart. He gave me
an extra ribbon and asked me to find somebody else to honor. As I was driving home
tonight, I started thinking about whom I would honor with this ribbon and I thought about
you. I want to honor you. My days are really hectic and when I come home I don't pay a lot
of attention to you. Sometimes I scream at you for not getting good enough grades in
school and for your bedroom being a mess, but somehow tonight, I just wanted to sit here
and, well, just let you know that you do make a difference to me. Besides your mother, you
are the most important person in my life. You're a great kid and I love you!"
The startled boy started to sob and sob, and he couldn't stop crying. His whole body
shook. He looked up at his father and said through his tears, "Dad, earlier tonight I
sat in my room and wrote a letter to you and Mom explaining why I had killed myself and
asking you to forgive me. I was going to commit suicide tonight after you were asleep. I
just didn't think that
you cared at all. The letter is upstairs. I don't think I need it after all." His
father walked upstairs and found a heartfelt letter full of anguish and pain. The envelope
was addressed, "Mom and Dad."
The boss went back to work a changed man. He was no longer a grouch but made sure to let
all his employees know that they made a difference. The junior executive helped several
other young people with career planning and never forgot to let them know that they made a
difference in his life...one being the boss's son. And the young boy and his classmates
learned a valuable lesson.
Who you are DOES make difference.
If you have anyone who means a lot to you, I encourage you to send him or her this
passage and let them know. You never know what kind of difference a little encouragement can make
to a person.
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